THE WORK
A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BODY.
VILATES is for women who want to understand their bodies more deeply, reconnect with desire, experience more pleasure and intimacy, and live with greater aliveness.
Not by fixing themselves.
Not by performing sexuality correctly.
Not by overriding what their bodies are telling them.
But by learning to listen.
THE BODY HAS INTELLIGENCE.
Much of what we have been taught about sexuality begins with behaviour:
How to communicate, How to increase desire.
How to have better sex.How to perform.
But sexuality doesn't begin there.
It lives in the body.
And the body responds to safety, sensation, emotion,
desire, relationship and meaning.
VILATES brings these dimensions together
so that sexuality can be explored as something
embodied rather than something you think your way through.
The Ecology of Intimacy.
Your body, your emotions, your relationships, your boundaries, your sexuality, and your aliveness are all connected. When you change one part of the ecosystem, the other parts change too.
Somatic practice
Working with the body's lived, present-moment experience.
THE VILATES APPROACH
Science and Sacred Practice, Body and Mind, Intellectual Understanding and Lived Experience.
Nervous system literacy
Understanding the conditions that influence safety, sensation, connection and desire.
Female pleasure anatomy
Developing a deeper understanding of the female sexual system and how pleasure is experienced in the body.
Sexuality research
Bringing intellectual understanding and contemporary sexological knowledge into the work.
Embodied sacred sexuality
Drawing from living traditions including Tantra and Taoism, approached with respect, discernment and integrity.
Our Approach
We're a team of passionate thinkers and doers, dedicated to building with purpose and clarity. Collaboration and curiosity drive everything we do. Our process is simple, thoughtful, and designed with your experience in mind. We believe great results come from clear steps, open collaboration, and a shared sense of purpose.
Our process is simple and thoughtful.
Explore our range of services designed to help you move forward with confidence, wherever you're headed next.
In-person and remote options
Our office is conveniently located in Manhattan. A place to gather, grow, and reconnect.
Our Services
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Meet the Team